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    Monday In House News


    Thank God It's Monday!!!
    Hope your day is going on as planned?Enjoy the rest of your free day ....Or is tomorrow still free?Make una continue to stay house oh,Jobless youths,they will soon add jobless adults to it.....LOL


    Any BV who has a made in Nigeria Super Eagles Jersey,Wear it and send photo for face of in house news and i will refund the money you used in buying it.....

    Kisses!






    YOUNG LADY ROBBED AND KILLED


    A lady was stabbed in my area (Corner Shop, FHA Lugbe) around 9pm on 16/6/18. She was on her way to her Fiance's house. It rained heavily that night, so the streets were unusually quiet + Nigeria was playing football, most men had to go to viewing centres to watch it because Nepa took light when the rain started.

     She was stabbed thrice, her bag was snatched and she gave up the ghost immediately. 

    According to the lady that witnessed the incident, she said she heard a scream and looked through her window, when she saw two guys, one was on a bike while the other was struggling with the girl. She said she had come in herself, so she stood up to wear and clothes and help the girl.

     Immediately she opened her door, the guy ran past with her bag and climbed the bike, the victim was already faced and was gasping for breath.she said she didn't know the girl was stabbed initially, she thought she was in shock and until she noticed the stab wounds, the girl gave up ghost in her arms. 

    The lady usually comes to visit her guy. She's practically part of his family. The guy is a good person, from the little I've seen of him through my sister. This is just one unfortunate incident.

    Her fiance was home all through, when she didn't arrive as planned, he drove his car around with friend to go find her which he didn't, He was upset he couldnt reach her. It was on his way back, he found out a crowd of people gather over a body and he found it was his girl, he passed out immediately. 

    This was past 12am and her body had not been moved. People were going house to house asking if they were related to the victim. 

     There's been several cases of Robberies and stabbing around this area, this is just the first one someone died from. 

    The Nigerian Police as usual had to take bribe for police report and fuel. 



    It is advised that when one is being robbed,not to struggle with the thieves,just let them take whatever they want and go..





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    ACCOMMODATION PLEA WITH FREE COW HEAD POMO


    I'm a single mom of a baby girl looking for accommodation in Abuja town. I presently reside in Masaka/Auta axis and it's  been really difficult for me as I run a business in town. Bvs in Abuja can attest to the traffic and craziness on that route every day. Rent expired last month and I don't want to renew there.

    Budget is 200k for a one bedroom or self contain apartment (depends) . I know it's  not much but it's all I can afford for now. Please anyone who has an empty BQ could also be of great. I no get wahala, I'm always busy and my baby is the calmest sweetest baby ever. You'll also get free pomo every Saturday... lol. Bvs please help me. 
    My contact is 08032361269 or 07082103499.

    BV Castle Windsor.






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    HOUSE TO RENT NEEDED

     Please I need an apartment around Agege to Ikeja. Self Contain to be precise. I want a total package of N250k. I don't mind meeting the landlord directly. Thanks. Please I can be contacted on 08135795623 




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    TEEJAYS CORNER

    A STORY FROM MY DIARY.....



    Life is a journey of endless voyage and the unknowns, where dreams may never come true and hopes may fade away.




    Today, I wish to share with you a true life story that touched and changed my perception about life.


    In the year 2006, I had travelled to Enugu for study when I met this young pretty lady. It was inside a lounge while drinking on my first night. A friend of mine who was an old student took me out for a treat.

    While drinking, this lady approached us, and requested for a drink. I got her one and she chose to have some chat with us. She noticed I was new in town and decided to give me some tips about the lifestyle and activities of the state.

    After sometime, she whispered to my ears if I wouldn't mind to go home with her. All along I knew she was a runs girl but there was something different about her. She was so educated, exposed and so enlightened with events. With her, conversation could be so interesting.


    When we were done drinking and about to leave, she followed us to the exit point of the lounge to say goodbye. I gave her 3,000 for keeping us company all through our time at the lounge. We exchanged numbers and we left.


    She called that night to know if I got home safely and the morning afterward to know how my night was. We kept on communicating through phone for weeks. Sooner than later it became an affection that led to yearnings to be together.


    Finally we met again. She came over to see me and we spent time together in each other arms. Weeks turned into months then months into year. All through those period, our love for each other grew so strong that she gave up so many things for love.


    On 14th Feb 2007, she took me to an orphanage home where we spent time with the kids together and gave them gifts we came with. When we left the orphanage, she told me this she has always done every Valentine day. I asked her what motivated that act of kindness?


    With tears in her eyes she told me she belongs there. She was adopted and raised by a family when she was 10months old. In her I saw the simple nature of life. She gave up drinking, smoking and clubbing for true love. I saw sincerity and truthfulness in her. In her I came to understand that addiction can be broken and overcome.


    She was asthmatic which I later found out but it didn't stopped me from loving her. We had so many plans and good times together. All she had ever wanted was to be love and happy but life was so cruel.

    I traveled back home to port harcourt for a break in semester only to returned to the saddest news of her DEATH. Life wasn't fair by this act of cruelty. It was a painful moment to behold. She died of asthma and heart failure.

    I share this memory with you this day not to draw human sympathy but to pass this message that;


    • In life, most precious things are gotten from places we least expected.

    • No matter how far we may have gone in life, we shouldn't forget where we came from.

    • Everyone deserved to be love and be happy no matter where we met them or where they came from.

    • There is no one with a perfect lifestyle.


    • In love there is no guilt and past deed.

    • There are unknown battles people are struggling with. We shouldn't break them with our actions.

    • Change is the only constant thing in life. Anyone can change unto good.
    BV TEEJAY.


























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    FROM MY INBOX


    I'm so sad right now as in totally depressed. I don't know anyone or friends I could talk to. I just feel like killing myself. I'm going through lots of pains and sleepless nights. All my Dad's effort in his company went into vain. No family or friends ever since we lost him.


    My Dad was the Gm of his company yet he would board public bus home for almost three hours journey cos he was low on fuel bills. He would leave as early before 7am only to return back between 10 to 12am. There were times he got drained in the rain and would get stuck outside leaving us panicking. 

    He doesn't eat before leaving and come back home again with no appetite;why? Most times,he receives high concentrated insults from his boss and wife even in the presence of his co workers. My Dad was highly intelligent,he did all of the company's work and executed it while they are flexing out of the country. All their three kids lived all their lives outside Nigeria with the youngest(21) who owns three rides and the least car of 50million naira. She had her birthday last year spending 10million naira just on a hall.


     They were living life while my Dad had sleepless nights thinking of how to move the company forward as a general manager who was the secret of the company's success and improvement collecting a salary of 210,000. Same amount their kids spend within two days.  210,000 naira was what my Dad spend on fuel,feeding allowances,school fees and other expenditures. I graduated from a state university and my fees was high,my immediate sister is still in school while my two other siblings are at home. 


    We as general manager kids never went to a private institution here in Nigeria despite my Dad making the biggest contribution and being the pillar of the company but their kids school abroad,living over there while the boss and wife travel out like everyday's business. My Dad has spent 10 years before he died and the usual was dashing him a house,car and money. Unfortunately,they didn't give us any,they even collected the official car he was dashed and guarantee as his while he was alive.



     He suffered ehn so much and whenever I remember how he complains of pains and curses from the job,I cry on his behalf cos my Dad was a very calm and easy going man. The boss kids never call him 'Sir' yet he didn't mind. If you go through the texts he received from the kids,you would think they were his parents giving orders. I'm so sad Stella. I cry everyday of my life but would come on your blog to pretend all is well and comment just 'normal'. No reward for my Dad's sweat at all. He just wasted his time,success and energy on a company that couldn't appreciate him for his hard labor.


     Most times he returns home,he staggers and we made fun of him not knowing he was seeing hell. They have abandoned us. I cry every day cos my Dad left so early at 51 without eating the fruit of his labor. He has always been a goal getter,hustler at 8 after loosing his Dad at that early stage. He was so brilliant that till he died,he lectures myself and siblings. He would tell us he prefers to be hungry and without clothes for us to live. He believed so much in us despite how we failed him countless times,he kept believing. He loved God so much that I keep wondering why his life was cut short despite his relationship with God. We spent so much yet it wasn't enough. He lost his voice,got wrapped on pampers so he could excrete;for where? He didn't and then he went on comma,gasp for breath and went...It's almost 7months yet we miss him the more everyday.


     I have no one,no friends except my Mom and siblings. Life is too complicated and wicked. My Dad's life was cut short by someone who envied 'nothing' he thought he had. I'm praying so hard for God to prove himself in my life and family so we could do greatest things of life and take everyone with surprises. I also pray the wicked souls be exposed. 

    Stella,if there's any little thing you could do for me and my family,please kindly remember us and have us in mind. I'm so sad. I'm fed up of life



    *Is this enough reason to be suicidal?To drink panadol for someone that is already dead and gone?



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    ACCOMMODATION PLEA

    A one bedroom flat is urgently needed around ketu, orioke ogudu and ojota axis. My budget is 250k without agent and agreement fees please reach me on this no 08120389224




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    THINKING ABOUT FATHERS DAY

    Fathers' day has come and gone again and I have noticed albeit with disdain, high level of unappreciation towards our fathers. 

    If it was mothers day, we would see a million post here and there with pictures  about how wonderful she has been and how she has always been there and blah blah blah but on fathers' day most people were mute. 

    We all know our mothers carried us for nine months and breastfed us which God made so and therefore impossible for a man to do same  but our fathers were not  playing during that period. 

    Most where hustling even harder to be able to take care of the innocent soul they bringing into the world while also caring for our mothers during the period. 
    Truth of the matter is that, parenting is division of labour and the two parents cannot be around at every point in time, therefore with  the man being the head of the house, the onus falls on him to fend for the family at whatever cost which makes him seem unavailable and then the mother comes to the "rescue" by always being there. 

    He sacrifices his availability for fending for the family because at the end of the day, he would be at the receiving end if he can't provide for them despite his being available. 

    Aside fending for the family which makes him unavailable, there are stil times he won't be able to meet some vital needs even after all the hustle  and the mother steps in once again to the "rescue " and her praises are sung by the kids. 
    You hear kids saying "I love my mother", "my mother bought it for me",  my mother this, my mother that, unaware of the fact that the father gives her the money sometimes and once again she is their hero. 

    Even when he doesn't, it's because there's no extra after food, shelter, clothing, schooling and other necessities have been taken care of but the mother on the other hand has some extra bucks to spend as it's not her primary responsibility to handle those necessities and so she becomes their knight in shining armour which endears her even more to the kids. 

    I can go on and on but let it be known that this is not a post to discredit the mothers or garner sympathy for the fathers.
    It's a call to us all to be more appreciative to our fathers as they toil day and night to make sure we have a good life.

    Also to let the mothers know that it would do much good to change the mindset of their kids and let them know that their dad not being available for school run, birthdays, PTA, etc and being part of their everyday life  as much as they want is actually to benefit  them and doesnt mean they love or care for them any less than their mothers. Most are hustling outside the country or state where their family resides just to put food on the table.

    Basically, let's appreciate our fathers (unsung heroes) the same way  we appreciate our mothers.  You can never imagine what they go through till you become one by virtue of having a kid of your own or being a single mother. 
    HAPPY BELATED FATHERS DAY TO ALL FATHERS AND SINGLE MOTHERS.

    From Blog Visitor










    RAISE YOUR HANDS IF YOUR BOO JILTED YOU THIS SALLAH


    Stella I hail o. 
    So my boss at work  gave me a break only on Friday for the sallah. So my plan was to go to my boyfriend's place for the long break and holiday  and just relax and have a nice time. 

    But after work on Thursday he called to say he would be traveling to c his parents in Lagos for the holiday. I was disappointed cos I've made plans in my head about how wonderful this holiday wuld be, cuddle, go see a movie, visit his Muslim frnds, go to church togeda , kiss, and all the serere 😁😂 #ifyouknowyouknow 


    But I said lemme not be selfish, he should go see  his parents atleast.even tho I know that  may just be a makeup story to make me not to come cos maybe someone Else was coming. 


    Friday morning he called and I was expecting to hear him say he was on his way already, but he called to say he changed his mind and blah blah blah.. Ahhh thank God... But baby I will be busy today setting up a clients fish farm (that Is his side hustle, livestock stuffs and all) so In my mind I was like ooossshheeyy Oya bring the lies on 😏😏😏 . But baby ull come tomorrow nah, Saturday , make some food, we hang out with my friends and all, he sha used that one to bribe me so I said okay. 


    Friday night.. Ah babe I'm so tired, can you bliv I'm just going home? But the pay Was worth it sha. Baby I got another job at 'akwanga ' (whatever that means) tomoro and in fact I'll be spending the whole day there cos the fish farm is large, they wanto stock it and all. I'll miss the delicious meal Ure supposed to make o. But don't worry I'll makeup Time for us. 😏😏😏😏😏🙆

    In my mind I just knew right away that another lady was in his house for the holiday. We started quarrelling on the 📱 and all. I know thats what he want so that we wie kuku keep malice truout the weekend and he will have time for his other girlfy.

     A typical me would have gone to his house and spoil everything. Sheybi Ayaf done it before and met them 😁😁But Abeg I no get strength. Men matter taya mi. So I just free him. That's how my baby went MIA since then o,till now sef , he didn't call cos he claimed 'we are fighting 😂😂😁 sense. Just few chats too.

    Said I'm the one who Should understand him most and blah blah blah... Abeeegggiiiii enjoy your holiday with the other lady and lemme. I am just waiting for when he will call me today to do lovey lovey  knowing that I will go to work and wunt talk about coming over again 😁

    Men!  Kai. Abuja men especially.  SMH What's your story for the weekend? Did your oga too play a fast one on you? I mean are you your boo's only boo? 



    *Ar you officially the side chic?what is your position in this mans life and why is this OK for you that he is a serial lover?Dont you think you deserve someone better?I feel sorry for you....Infact I pity you!!!





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    ACCOMMODATION NEEDED IN SURULERE

    .  I have just been transferred to Lagos (Marina)  and I need an accommodation like two or three bedroom  flat around Surulere area. I would prefer to deal with  Landlord directly due to my budget. I can be reached on  07057606993.




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    HOUSE KEEPING

    I'm a very hard working person with integrity and ability to work and render good services to costumers.
    Please Bvs in Lagos that need someone to clean their houses for them should contact me and they won't regret it... Am tired of staying idle at home. 
    07016747325, Lagos.










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